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I
had been meaning to write this article sooner but.....I
couldn’t get motivated.
I was afraid it wouldn’t come out well.
I was tired. I
really didn’t feel well.
Some friends dropped by.
I was too busy. My
house needed cleaning. I
really wanted to do something more fun.
Ever
hear yourself saying similar things when you have a task you
need to complete?
Certainly,
everyone has, even me, but I employ methods that work for me
to get through it.
Procrastination
happens for different reasons, and if you are a
procrastinator, sometimes changing that habit can be as
simple as sitting down and thinking through your thought
processes. Too
often, people who procrastinate tend to accept that about
themselves, and therefore do nothing, or by the time they
act, it is too late.
Next
time you find yourself procrastinating about a decision you
need to make or a project or task you have to do, use these
steps to think it through.
First
ask yourself, “Why don’t you want to do it now? “
Does
it seem boring?
Is
it too overwhelming?
Do
you only have small blocks of time available and you like to
do everything
from start to finish in one sitting?
Are
you tired?
Do
you fear failing or that it won’t turn out perfectly?
Each of these questions leads you to a different conclusion
and can be dealt with in its own way.
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For instance, if it seems boring, but you know it
needs to be done, do it anyway.
Consider
the consequences if you don’t do it.
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If it seems too overwhelming, break it down into
smaller parts, and do one or several
parts at a time. Then
take a break, or do more small parts the next time you
have time.
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If you only have small blocks of time available, make
this a good thing.
First change
your mindset that it all has to get done at once, because it
doesn’t. That’s
just a habit you have and may be interfering with
your progress.
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Are you tired? Be
aware of your circadian rhythms.
Each of us peaks at different
hours of the day.
If you are more energetic and alert in the mornings,
that may be the best
time for you to tackle a situation that is causing you to
procrastinate.
Most of us have low periods of energy just before and after
lunch. Be aware
of this and don’t try to tackle large projects at those
times. Before
and after lunch is usually a good time to catch up on
mundane activities such as filing, or opening mail.
Small progressions add up and tend to motivate
you further. For
some people, rewarding yourself as you make progress helps.
This can be as simple as having a cup of your
favorite coffee, to phoning a friend, to buying a new
outfit. Only you
know what is rewarding and practical to you.
Another
consideration in asking yourself to think through the
“Why” of your procrastination, is when is the project
due? Whatever
your deadline, write it in your planner or on your calendar,
several days prior to the actual due date.
Even though intellectually you’ll know the actual
date, seeing it in writing spurs you to action.
Writing it down also gives it validity.
Do you hate writing thank you notes?
This is an area where many procrastinate.
The deadline is self-imposed.
Although experts maintain that it is most
appropriately sent within a week of an occurrence, no one is
monitoring that you actually do so.
Again, think it through.
What is the purpose of a thank you note?
You know your client will appreciate it.
You know it gets your name out in front of him again
for next to no expense or effort.
When the client sees your name, while he is still
feeling good about your work, he is likely to recommend you
to others. Therein
lies the motivation to get it done.
Another question to think through before giving
into the temptation of avoiding doing something is, how will
you feel when it is done?
You know you will feel a sense of completion,
possibly pride and stress relief.
That’s a big one for me.
Get it done so I don’t have to think about it
anymore. Move
on.
Another consideration, are you easily distracted?
Do you start one thing, then remember something else
that needs to get done, and impulsively jump to that?
Professional organizers advise to keep only one
project on your desk at a time so this is avoided.
Make a plan and stick to it.
Give yourself a time span you will spend on parts of
the project. Don’t
stray from your plan. While you are accomplishing this goal,
focus on it. Don’t
let your mind be thinking about something else.
One
important reason people procrastinate is fear.
Are you afraid of losing things, forgetting things,
not finishing things, doing the wrong thing, failing?
All these things cause you more work because you
aren’t doing the things you need to do.
Lack of action generally effects others.
This in turn, can then effect your self-esteem, and
possibly your job security.
There are many other reasons people procrastinate
that we have not touched on here, just as there are many
more techniques that can be applied to get you through them.
Use this article as a starting place. These methods
work and can help you feel more successful.
It takes a bit of discipline, but hey, that’s why
we are procrastinating in the first place.
©
2005
Time-Savers Professional Organizing Services
, Inc.
Diane Hatcher is a professional organizer and owner of
Time-Savers Professional Organizing Services,
Inc., in Broward County since 1998. She can be reached at
954-252-7511 or by logging on to www.timesaversUSA.com.

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